I Went Through Hell To Get This Happy.

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My childhood was cruel.  At 16 I ran away.

 I chose homelessness over staying. I was shunned. 

I walked out with nothing and built a life anyway.

What I did not know then was that leaving physically 

does not mean leaving psychologically. 

The unconscious patterns came with me 

— the belief that love had to be earned,

 that I was only worth something when I was needed, 

that being alone meant something was fundamentally wrong with me.

I married a controlling man. I stayed 14 years. 

Put myself through university. Built a career. 

From the outside it looked like I had it together.

Then I was diagnosed with cancer. Hodgkin’s disease. 

Two years of chemotherapy and a full stem cell transplant.

Nine blood transfusions 

— the treatment the organisation denied my father. 

I accepted every one to stay alive for my daughters.

I'll always remember the moment I gripped the bathroom

 sink in UCH Hospital London.

I was so physically weak from undergoing a full stem cell transplant.

With no hair, in a hospital gown, I caught myself in the mirror. 

That was my deciding point.

I had to learn to love myself. I ended my marriage.

I had contorted myself around destructive patterns

 in the name of love for years.

Now it was my turn to focus on creating a loving relationship within 

and what I got is this life full of gentle, kind love and fulfillment.

26 years of Jungian psychotherapy and counselling.

 Degree level training. 

And an intuitive ability to see straight through to what is actually 

happening underneath what someone is telling me.

As an Emotional Intelligence Mentor I

 work across every area of your life 

— not just your relationships. 

Your emotional responses at work, your self worth, 

your internal narrative, your ability to regulate under pressure, 

set boundaries without guilt, trust your own decisions, 

stop self-sabotaging, and build a genuine relationship with yourself 

that changes everything else.

Many clients tell me this single session gave them more 

clarity than years of previous therapy.

No pressure. No sales pitch. 

Just an honest conversation with someone who has been exactly 

where you are and found the way through.

Whenever you are ready. I am here.